A professional stand-up comedian with powerful messages for students about alcohol, safe sex, and HIV/AIDS.

If you are looking for a funny, non-traditional approach to a program on these topics, then Mike “Mikee D” DeStefano is a fantastic choice.  He will have students rolling in the aisles, helping them consider the real-life ramifications of their choices about sex and alcohol.

The issues of substance abuse and AIDS have hit Mike’s life in the most personal ways.  After overcoming his own addictions and becoming a substance abuse counselor in New York, Mike met and married Fran, another recovering addict.  Tragically, Fran died of AIDS-related causes seven years later.

Mike’s programs are funny, uncensored and brutally honest.  Equal parts stand-up comedy and thoughtful lecture, Mike is a creative choice for a variety of campus events. Consider him for awareness weeks, or simply for a Friday night entertainment program with a message.

Mike has recently performed on “Late Night with Conan O’Brien,” and his comedy resume also boasts Comedy Central’s “Live at Gotham.”  He is a regular guest on the “Opie and Anthony” radio show, and he also recently landed a recurring role on A&E’s hit show, “Rescue Me.”

Mike can adjust the content of the program (more raunchy, less raunchy, or pretty damn clean) based on your needs and the tone of your event. Call for more information.

Wise Words From A Wiseguy
Alcohol, Drugs, and HIV in a Comedic Lecture

The dynamics of alcohol abuse and sexual health are a cornerstone of his college programs. Mike understands that any discussion of sex and young people must include the “dangers of alcohol that most often lead to unhealthy choices."

It was an inspirational presentation with an important message about alcohol and drug abuse. Mike was very easy to work with and seemed to really love what he does. He made the students laugh a lot, which is very hard to do!

Kimberly Johnston
Assistant Director of Student Activities
Chestnut Hill College
October 2007

In his presentation Wise Words From A Wiseguy, he tells his story of an abusive childhood, alcohol and heroin addictions, and the death of his wife from AIDS-related causes. His program is equal parts stand-up comedy and thoughtful lecture.

"Our student-athletes really enjoyed this presentation. They were entertained and enlightened all at the same time. Normally they bolt out of the room after a life skills presentation. Last night many of them stuck around to talk to Mike after the show."

Melody L. Cope
Senior Associate Director of Athletics
Dowling College

Can I Borrow Your Closet?
How A Tough Guy Overcame Homophobia

"Standing there were two guys in their 20s, they were in love and not ashamed to show it.  They caressed one another and kissed.  It made me want to puke."

Comedian and activist Mike DeStefano hadn't even seen a real live homosexual before that day in 1988. Growing up in the Italian part of the Bronx, he spent time with his friends hanging out on street corners and throwing bodies into the trunks of Lincoln Town Cars (well, not really).  But when a life-changing event occurred in Mike's life, his friends went AWOL. Unable to find understanding and compassion with his old "friends," Mike was forced to overcome his homophobia, and turn, ironically, to the gay community for support.

"Can I Borrow Your Closet?" is an hysterical, thought-provoking, politically incorrect look at fear, acceptance, and homophobia.  With his New York-style of comedy, Mike DeStefano breaks down the stereotypes and shares his own personal story, while relating to students that may not understand the GLBT lifestyle. This program is great for GLBT events, leadership conferences, diversity workshops, first year experience, and "tough crowds" that need to understand tolerance.